Powering Stories: Larry Valenzuela

LarryV_blogimgby Larry Valenzuela

UYWI is about powering the urban youth worker and we know that part of that is coming together and sharing our stories. Larry Valenzuela is one of those people, here is his story:

About a year ago, my perspective on youth ministry began to shift.

It started with a group of junior high school boys from my neighborhood that began to hang out near my front yard. They had an enormous amount of energy; riding scooters, skateboarding, and had vibrant imaginations. We quickly connected and began to develop a friendship. At first I thought they only wanted someone to hang out with socially, but soon after, they became extremely vulnerable about their home lives and deeper conversations resulted.

They see themselves as school misfits and are frequently in after-school detention or suspended, their home environment is tough, and of all the boys, only one has a father at home. The others live with their mother or extended family members.

My heart was burdened for these boys and I knew I could not just sit back and watch. With their family’s permission we agreed to make Monday afternoons a “pizza & talk time.” There was no real agenda other than providing a stable time to exchange weekend stories and place to stay away from the neighborhood distractions. However, the boys always focused their conversations around their family life. One by one they would tell me about their difficult week, conflict with siblings, and shared about wanting a better home life.

One night, as we walked home together, one of the boy’s named Nick opened up and told me that his stepdad walked out on his family the weekend prior to us meeting. Though he was sad, he was also relieved because all the arguments had finally stopped. He then shared that he could not wait to come and tell me, and that the only thing that kept him from running away from home was knowing that he would meet with me and the rest of the boys again that coming Monday.

At that point I knew I had to do more. His story kept me up all night and I prayed hoping that God would give me a sense of direction I did not know what to do or what my next steps should be if any. I had seen a few UYWI ads on social media but I wasn’t too familiar with the organization. That night I reached out through the general info email on the website requesting advice and prayer on how to respond to the needs.

The very next day I received a phone call from Larry Acosta from UYWI and he encouraged me to continue working with these boys. His words were refreshing, and I knew I contacted the right place. He also connected me with Robert Aboites, part of the UYWI team. I was overwhelmed by their coaching and wisdom. The care they extended was beyond a phone call. I honestly had no idea of the depth of experience and heart that UYWI had for reaching young people.

Not long after, I attended UYWI’s National Conference for the first time and found that I was not alone. They connected me with hundreds of other youth workers who had similar stories. The training was powerful, yet practical. I am very appreciative for UYWI. They provided timely advice, resources and direction to fuel my passion for the lost.

I am now working with our Pastor and partnering with Young Life and local high schools to create a strategy that will focus on our students needs outside of the church walls.

Larry Valenzuela
Youth Leader at Love International Ministries | Phoenix, AZ

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2 Responses to “Powering Stories: Larry Valenzuela”

  1. Rahkiah Brown 05/13/2015 at 11:37 am #

    This is so inspiring Larry. I am a youth leader at Alive Church in Gainesville, FL. I have also discovered that teens really just want a safe and loving community where they can share challenges and frustrations without being judged. I have a group of high school senior girls from our youth ministry that I have journeyed with throughout their senior year. When we come together they look forward to just being able to express themselves freely in an environment where nothing they say will be held against them or brought up in mixed company. Our meetings developed into a sisterhood where they support each other and encourage one another to overcome obstacles and persevere through trials. It was one of the most amazing things I’ve witnessed. We created a Groupme which become such an amazing resource. It allowed the girls to keep in contact with each other and daily even though they attend different schools. Every day they share prayer requests, encouragement, or just chat about their daily lives. It helped them grow closer even outside of our weekly meetings. The girls are now headed off to college this summer and two of them are now looking to lead their own connect group for teens younger than themselves.

    I am excited I have discovered UYWI as I too am looking to continue to grow in my youth leadership skills. I am looking forward to becoming more connected within the UYWI community. 🙂

  2. Andy Fierro 05/13/2015 at 10:59 pm #

    Rahkiah,
    Thank you so much for your response to Larry’s article. I see you are looking to get more connected with us here at UYWI. A great way to do that just now is watching our Free Live Streaming of our UYWI National Conference which starts tomorrow May 14, and goes through May 16th. It will be streaming here on our website conf.uywi.org you’ll be able to see our General Sessions & a couple of the workshops as well. If you have any questions feel free to email us at info@uywi.org

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